As a frequent traveler, I love to observe parents interacting with their children at the airport. Some parents KNOW how to engage and entertain their children. It's a beautiful thing! Some parents are totally frustrated and just hand them an electronic device. It's all I can do not intervene and demonstrate some positive techniques. I know I need to "mind my own business," but sometimes parents need a little help.
I’m writing this blog in hopes that you can
share these ideas with families of children you teach. You are welcome to put this
on your class website, blog, or send it home with a summer fun packet.
An
ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure when you travel with
children. And if you’ll read these tips, I bet your fellow passengers
will thank you for being on top of the game! Take advantage of the
one-on-one time with your child by giving them 100% of your attention.
After all, isn’t family time the best part of any vacation?
Planning Ahead
Several
days before the trip start talking about your adventure and give
details about what is going to happen. Have children close their eyes
as you describe the trip – checking in at the airport - going through
security - waiting for your flight to be called – getting on the plane
and fastening your seatbelt – taking off – looking out the window –
landing – how much fun you’ll have on your vacation, etc. Explain that
there are many other people who will be sharing a small space on the
plane and that everyone needs to be respectful and use their best
manners and quiet voices. The pilots and flight attendants are there to
keep everybody safe, so you will have to listen carefully to them.
Packing
Let
your child pack a bag full of special objects that they want to carry
on the plane. (You’ll have to give some guidelines for this so they
don’t try and bring their entire collection of stuffed animals.) A few
books, a notebook and markers, a card game, a bedtime buddy or blanket,
and some healthy snacks should do the trick. You might also suggest a
change of clothes, tissues, and bandaids in case of emergencies.
Note!
I did not suggest a computer or IPad. Parents, you can pack this in
your bag and save it for emergencies. Too often children play with
these while waiting for their flights to take off and then they are
bored by the time they get on the plane.
Waiting
After
going through security, walk around and look out the windows at the
other planes. Look at all the passengers and guess where they might be
going. Talk about special things that your child hopes to do on the
trip. If the flight is delayed you can play “I Spy,” “Tic Tac Toe,”
“Hangman” or another quiet game. Oh, and don’t forget a last minute
stop in the restroom!
Taking Off
When
boarding a plane, you’ll find most pilots enthusiastic about meeting
children and letting them take a “peek” inside the cockpit. Can your
child find her own seat? Once seated, encourage your child to explore
her space. (It’s fine to open and shut the window shade a few times,
look in the seat pocket, talk about the airsick bag, etc.) Playing
with the flight attendant call button is NOT ALLOWED! When the boarding
door has closed, then everyone must buckle up!
Up in the Air
Once
you are in the air, it’s time to open the backpack and read some books,
play a game, draw some pictures, or eat a snack. If a beverage is
served, show your child how to put down their tray and discuss their
selection. Keep on talking and engaging your child.
O.K.
Now, it’s time to get out the iPad or computer and watch a movie.
Wait until the last possible moment to do this. This is like the 8th
inning stretch on the plane. (I might also recommend a bag of M &
M’s – for emergencies only!)
Before you know it you will hear those magic words, “Please fasten your seatbelts. We will be landing shortly.”
Remember,
YOU are the parent and you are directing this event. With a happy,
positive, attitude you’ll have a great flight and the other passengers
will as well! How many opportunities do you have to give your child
100% of your attention? That may be the best part of your trip!
Wishing you safe and happy travels!