Tuesday, October 13, 2015


Here’s an idea that is gluten free, sugar free, and sure to accommodate all food allergies while giving children a special birthday memory. You can watch me explain it on this video:


Make a circle of friends and invite the birthday child to stand in the middle. The birthday child can choose friends to be the candles on their cake. For example, if they are five years old they select five friends; six years old six friends, etc. The candles/friends stand around the birthday child and then the rest of the class holds hands to make the birthday cake as they say:

       Today is child’s name birthday.
       Let’s make her/him a cake. (Circle arms to make a bowl.)
       Stir and mix and mix and stir, (Pretend to stir.)
       Then into the oven to bake. (Pretend to put cake in the oven.)
       Here’s our cake so nice and round. (Circle arms.)
       We’ll frost it with icing white. (Spread frosting with palm.)
       We’ll put age candles on it. (Hold up fingers.)
       To make her/his birthday bright.

After singing the traditional birthday song, let the birthday child “blow” out the candles. The candles wiggle down to the floor when they are blown out.

What else can you do?
*Make the traditional paper birthday crown for the child to decorate.  (This is one of those ideas that is timeless.  And, it emphasizes that children are happy with PLAIN VANILLA!)

*Make a “Happy Birthday” book. Each child in the classroom draws a picture of something they would like to give the birthday friend. A simple sentence like “My wish for you is_____.” could be added to the page. The birthday child decorates a large sheet of construction paper in which the pictures from their friends can be stapled to make a book.

*Give the birthday child one special wish. She can choose a game, book, song, friend to sit by, etc.

*Spray paint a chair gold and decorate with fake jewels. The “Fancy Nancy Chair” can be used for birthdays and other classroom celebrations.

*In my granddaughter’s school they “give” a favorite book to the class on their birthday.

My friend Janice Vinci shared this idea:
For birthdays non-food treats can be sent in. Each child draws a present and we make a book for the child. While they are drawing the present, we listen to the Birthday ABC song on Totally Reading. The child decorates the cover! The birthday child also has no homework! Hopefully they will remember turning six in kindergarten!!!!

Hint! Be sure and celebrate summer birthdays in May.